But, punishing your partner isn't always about playing. Facing him and making him feel guilty is enough to hurt him. Just tell him how angry you are and how betrayed you feel. Be honest and express how a moment of lust destroyed years of trust.
That is, surprise him with your actions by not giving him the reaction he expects. If you want to emotionally punish your cheating boyfriend, then you can make him jealous. This is one of the best ways to get back at him because it will hurt his feelings and make him feel bad about himself. If your husband has cheated on you, it goes without saying that you are experiencing myriad emotions and a lot of pain.